Quote from group Adoption Share

From Adoption Share which posted this on Facebook. Love it.....

We came across this quote on a conversation thread on Facebook and have to share: "Adoption is an event, not an identity. Adoption does not answer the question who, it answers the question how. How did we become a family? How did you come to us? And once a child comes to a family, the event becomes past tense. My children aren't adopted, they WERE adopted."