"Not In My Family"

I've heard it mentioned on TV programs and real life conversations lately. Some are totally against adoption. "Not in my family...." I believe that I am fortunate that I don't have this issue. If someone is against it they aren't making it known. With all due respect if someone was against our decision for adoption and ever pulled the "not in my family" card that would be it for that relationship. It should always be the couples decision and no outside person should hold that power. I always have been someone who understands a lot, but I don't get this train of thought. Why would you deny someone the chance to be a parent? For a child to be blessed into a loving home. I don't understand.

Random thought on a Monday night when I should be in bed. So random!

I know sorry.

In off topic from this post I made a toy nook and switched a bunch of stuff around the house. My back hurts. My husband is amazed that I did that all on my own and was worried. I'm okay just hurts. I am going to put this out there but if an employee of the agency we are going through comes into the house and starts booing the toy nook I might have to challenge that closed mindedness. They may like it I don't know.
I can just see it.
Employee: how dare you set up a place where the child can read and/or play. What is wrong with you? I suppose the next thing you will do is put clothes in the dressers and closets. How dare you! 
Yes that makes no sense which means it might actually happen.
You would have to understand some issues at this point to understand the joke in that. Okay time for bed and time to get ready for a long day.